7 Teaching of Buddha for Us

Everybody work only for one thing in their life, i.e only happiness. Most people generally don't know themselves and run in the different direction in the search for peace and happiness. From the opening of eyes in morning to the sleep, people live a conscious and active life that they created a list of data from their birth till the present. For a particular situation, different people react unlikely and every reaction of any individual states his/her personality and moral character. If a question asked for anyone, "What Do You Want Next From Life?"; I think we all have a list of such wants. Even I also want something from life but the Buddha 14Teaching make us feel different. It helps to work on yourself to lead a happy life. It is very simple to understand and if anyone have 6-10 such qualities, then he/she is leading a very cheerful and loving life, and if someone develops more than 12 teaching of Buddha in themselves then he/she will live an honorable and respected life. As I mentioned earlier, it is very easy to understand and very useful to enlight yourself. The 14 Buddha Teaching are listed below;-

1)The Biggest Enemy Is The Self-If we understand our each and every fault, instead of searching mistakes in other, it helps a lot. We should focus on our mistake just like we notice the mistake of others, especially in our enemy.

2)The Greatest Failure In Life Is Narcissism -To love and care only yourself is probably the biggest failure. Those who love only themselves, don't know the actual meaning of love. We must try to seek love and humanity from everyone.

3)The Greatest Tragedy In Life Is Feeling Jealous- If someone is jealousy and always compare himself/herself to other and feel bad about it, such people never fell a joyful life. Jealous cause distrust and distrust cause frustration. So how can a frustrated being think of happiness? Also in practical life we may see, the more you feel jealous, the more you retard in your success.

4)The Greatest Fault Is to Lose Oneself- To lose your temper and anger in a physical action is the fault, and we are living a cycle where everyone should suffer for their fault. The main cause of occurrence of point no. 4 is because of not following above three points. Is someone is well focused on first three, then losing oneself is almost impossible?

5)The Greatest Crime Is Disloyalty To Parents-Disloyalty to anyone who loves you or trusts you is the biggest crime, but to be disloyal with the parents(one who love you the most) is the greatest crime. Disloyalty isn't to tell a lie or to do without asking parents but too broke the trust. Either do not break the trust or do not make it.

6)The Greatest Ignorance Is Deceit- This is one of the most important teachings for me. We come across that many people a playing creepy stupid game with others and pretend to be smart. Buddha credited them as a fool because they are using their creative brain useless. Don't deceit with others because is the biggest ignorance.

7)The Greatest Pity In Life Is Self Depreciation- If one work with the above six teaching then one may feel situation filling self-deprivation, feeling depreciation is a most piteous character. We should try not to feel self-depreciation in any situation. If any such situation happened then try to calm your mind and just relax for a while and begin a new start. Also, motivate friends or relative who feel self-depreciation.

Important Note... the teachings are in sequence. so it is good to learn one by one.

There are still 7 teaching which will be explained in next blog. For more learning, you may .read a book 'the heart of Buddha Teaching' by Thich Hanh.

THE MOD CONCEPT

This is the simple concept we learn in our school days. There is a MOD function in mathematics through which any number become positive, no matter wether it is positive or negative. According to this philosophy we apply a MOD bar around us in any situation. Let me make it simple. Suppose we are enjoying our life and we want to live like that always. But at some circumstances we feel inferior because of some unwanted trouble. Mod concept says that whatever the situation is we must act it as positive. Suppose we get any reward, make it positive. Any failure, take it as positive. For example. if we tried hard for a company job and didn't get it, take it as it is very much important to be rejected so that one may increase more caliber. Never BLAME any one. Never JUSTIFY or try to do it.People generally blame others for their situation. Whenever your finger point some one, always remember that three fingers are pointing you. Take the situation as positive, learn at least thee lesson from it and never dwell for that.Try not to complain anyone, neither any person, government, weather, parents nor to your self. Just try to do it only for a week and you will fell the changes inside you. I am giving an example to make it clear how to use mod concept. Suppose you and your partner is working in a project, and because of his/her incautious you got a great loss. Now apply the MOD and make the situation positive. Instead of blaming your partner carelessness, take it as it was your good luck to have such a careless partner who teach you that not to depend on such type of people, also he/she showed many activities to judge people. The positive impact in a faulty situation always remind you if the same situation come and also you owe some fantastic techniques to either solve or escape such situation. If any one just blame or justify the faulty situation then he/she may not learn much more from it. Suppose some one unknown cheat me economically then instead of blaming one, I think that this is very much important lesson for my life. This time I was fool to have been  cheated but next time, it won't happened. Just try it for seven day and you will see the difference.

THE MOD AROUND US

5 Essential Concept To Accomplish True Happiness

The life seems very happy from outside but very different within. Some know there strength and weakness and some investigate till the last breath. There are very few who fill someone with positiveness in very less time of interaction. Once I asked my friend what do you want one thing most in your life. After taking some time, he replied 'HAPPINESS'. Almost every one work for happiness
and try to search it in every small things. This makes life very much beautiful.But together we all know that happiness is something which comes from inside. Eastern philosophy also tell the same. The different religious concept gives different  teaching but the core values of all are basic. By studying different philosophy of different Great Soul, and some core theories of different religion, I am trying to understand some basic way of enlightenment.

1) The Wound Is the Place Where Light Enters You. - Almost all of us become very much depressed when something wrong happened to us. No one of us wants any trouble and if we have an option, we permanently delete the sorrow and painful file from our life. Unfortunately we don't have such option but we have an interesting option which completely substitute previous one. When ever there is any such type of situation we may excess our self to the lightning mode by allowing the goodness to enter within. Generally people think a lot after such trouble and get to a misguided result, which is more harmful. Let me illustrate you. Once a nice guy engaged with a fetching girl and relationship went on for a long time. The guy loved his lady far much everything in his life. But the girl dumped him in his hard time.He was totally broken. The unguarded thought of the guy lead him to the decision that no women in this world are trustworthy and love is just a myth. He unfortunately ruined his life and was not able to make close relationship with anyone. His one unguided thought make his entire life empty and worst thing is that he never realized his sleeping point and the love he missed. The same situation happened to many of us. Instead of getting to that result, if he continued to respect women, if he figure that the weak point in their relationship and the symptom that girl showed before betray, he may became little more wiser than before and also lived happily. So the main concern of this is that whenever something wrong happen or a wound hurt you, use that moment to light yourself. Do not come to a result of an unguided thought and guide it by reading different philosophy of great people and may also take help from religious content.

2) Don't Get Irritated By Every Rub- We often heard that once a man try to climb the tree of enlightenment,  there are thousand to drag his feet. This is hypothetical but sadly it is little bit true. So once you enlightened the lamp of your heart or in the process of it, you will be definitely get rubs. The wound you just cure, does not seems much important in the eye of society. The pain is very much personal. So there are some phase when you feel someone poke your wound directly or indirectly which really offend you. Please don't get irritated. You have to control that situation by just smiling and forgiving others. Always remember, 'if you are irritated by every rub, how will you be polished?'
It's your road and yours alone. Other may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you.

3)Be Patient In your Dark- Day cause night, and night cause night. Sometime you feel the time is not with you or you can't do anything for your good or you are trapped, always think that this period is going to end and it is 100% going to end but I have to be patient. The more patient I am, the more solution I get and if I will less patient, the time period of the dark might increase a little but it is surely going to end. Always remember that the dawn is coming.

4)Understand The Power Of Love- If success is the treasure then the love is the key to it. Love is awesome bridge between you and any thing. If you want something, just start loving it.Your job, your parents, your relation with some one,your life or anything. No barriers may hinder between you and to whom you love.But first we must understand what LOVE actually is. Love is your strong feeling for some one to whom you sacrifice any thing which you owe. If you truly start loving anything, you join the magnificent path of happiness.

5)Listen To Your Inner Voice- We may familiar with the statement of listening to the inner voice but many of us are very much logistic and always work on the calculation. Sometimes our voice from inside tells to do something but it result in totally disaster of or own. Our brain impulses about six thousand each day. So what is the meaning left in listening to the inner voice. How we may differentiate our general thought with the inner voice? Inner voice don't have words or sentence or any language. It is just a voice; for example my inner voice tell me to stop going somewhere, or tell me to meet someone. Try to talk to your inner voice. We must always listen to it and follow it.


There are still some remaining concepts which is worthless without adopting above methods. There are some points which one may follow :-

*Try to stay away from jealous, hateful, aggressive, lazy and non believer kind of people especially in hard time.
*Always be aware what is going around you.
* Try to recall all those people who was non justified , each and every one who indirectly hurt you.And gift them with tolerance and forgiveness.